Divorce is not just
the end of a marriage.
It's a full identity reset.
Nobody talks about how much of yourself is wrapped up in a partnership until the partnership ends. Your plans, your identity, your social world, your sense of who you are — all of it gets reorganized in ways you didn't fully anticipate.
The work isn't about getting over it faster. It's about processing what actually happened, understanding your part in it clearly, and rebuilding in a way that makes the next chapter genuinely different from the last one.